Mating Clothes (and shopping issues)

Or: the fashion industry wants us to feel wrong so that we buy more clothes...

"Sexy, like stylish, is a complete paradox --the more you try, the less you've got. Luckily, for the fashion industry, trying isn't the same as changing eight times before you go out."

Also

"I would like to start a movement for kindness in changing rooms in which we smile and say things like, 'Sure, you've got a big bum, but  it looks great in cerise satin.'"

 And two notes: 

1. New York communal fitting rooms are friendlier than London's. 
2. The digital version (eg. GoTryItOn) does not hit the spot.